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Vaga Prednosti: Strpljivost, rafiniranost, poštenje, dobar ukus Slabosti: Taština, protivrječnost, snobizam Stil roditeljstva: Vi ste znak koji uvijek teži tom čuvenom „balansu“. Majčinstvo vam može pomoći u tome da uskladite pretjeranu fokusiranost na sebe i brigu za druge. Od narcisoidne osobe…

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Vaga

Strengths as a mom: Patience, refinery, good taste, fairness Weaknesses as a mom: Inconsistency, snobbery, vanity Your parenting style: "You know that elusive 'balance' that Libra, the sign of the swinging scales, is forever seeking? Motherhood might be the very thing that helps you find your center point, bringing you out of self-induced chaos into the calm 'eye of the storm.' Well, some days, anyhow. Born under a languid sign famous for procrastinating and stopping to smell every single rose (not that there's anything wrong with that), you suddenly become structured and even downright type A as a mom. Libra is the zodiac's sign of relationships, and—as much as this defies any self-help book written since 1982—you're happiest when you live for another person. Children give you the perfect excuse to do just that. Organizing your life around, well, organizing their lives, is a habit you take to like a mermaid to water. You love all the stereotypical trappings of childhood—from oversized dollhouses and trucks to elaborate tea parties and train tracks. Tasteful toys may litter your well-appointed parlor when your kids are young. Libras don't like to rush, and you have a strong ability to really be in the moment with your kids. You're amused by their antics and in love with their quirks and questions—happy to spend hours explaining exactly why the sky is blue or helping them pinpoint the exact location of heaven when a pet goldfish dies. In that regard, Libra moms model self-care for your children, dressing well and re- fusing to 'let yourself go' just because you've had a baby. You'll also make sure your children are as well-appointed as you'd like to be, dressing them in adorably stylish outfits. You can be more than a touch vain at moments, also making your kids part of your personal vanity project at times. Remind yourself periodically that they weren't born to be your showpieces or personal ambassadors. Strive for a healthy state of interdependence—where individuality and separateness are respected, just as deeply as times of togetherness are cherished."

Prednosti: Strpljivost, rafiniranost, poštenje, dobar ukus

Slabosti: Taština, protivrječnost, snobizam

Stil roditeljstva: Vi ste znak koji uvijek teži tom čuvenom „balansu“. Majčinstvo vam može pomoći u tome da uskladite pretjeranu fokusiranost na sebe i brigu za druge. Od narcisoidne osobe prerastate u osobu koja je A klasa mame.

Vaga je znak veza, stoga ste najsrećniji kada živite za druge, bez obzira na sve sebične sklonosti. Djeca vam daju mogućnost da to u potpunosti ostvarite, jer kada postanete majka vi se snalazite kao sirena u vodi. Ne volite žuriti, pa svaki trenutak sa djecom koristite i posvećujete se maksimalno. Uživate u igranju sa velikim kućama za lutke, autićima i svim igračkama vaše djece.

Obožavate razgovore sa njima, mogli biste satima odgovarati na pitanja zašto je nebo plavo ili im objašnjavati tačno mjesto raja, u kojem će se naći njihova zlatna ribica ako ugine. Ništa ne prepuštate slučaju pa tako ni njihov stil oblačenja. Svojim primjerom pokazujete kako izgleda dobar stil i oblačite ih u kombinacije u skladu s tim. Ponekad ih doživljavate kao dio svog projekta taštine pa bi s vremena na vrijeme trebali da se podsjetite da oni nisu tu kako bi bili modeli za odjeću koju nosite. Razvijajte zdrav način odrastanja i samostalnosti vašeg djeteta te mu ponekad sugerišite kako da se obuče, ali nemojte mu uvijek sve diktirati.

Škorpija

Strengths as a mom: Strength, resilience, intuition, willpower Weaknesses as a mom: Control, paranoia, emotional unavailability, obsessiveness, intensity to a fault Your parenting style: The Scorpio mother is a magnetic mama—a curious mix of quirky and controlling, inspiring and intimidating. Depending on your mood, your kids may cling to you—or scurry away from your wrath. Not that you'd ever turn the full wrath on them. One 'death stare' from a Scorpio mom is all it takes to keep a willful child in line. Fiercely protective, you guard your children with irrepressible spirit and strength. You've got a streak of Carmela Soprano in you: a mafia matriarch (in stilettos) that nobody dares to cross twice. Most Scorpios take to motherhood quickly. You're an emotional water sign, after all, and your nurturing qualities are automatic. Although Scorpios can be slow to warm up to the rest of the world, your child will melt your defenses in a heartbeat. Soon enough, the hard part isn't getting attached—it's letting go. In the meantime, though, you'll work hard to ensure that your child's life is crafted with precision. Like Scorpio "mom-ager" Kris Jenner with her Kardashian kids, you'll work hard to ensure that your clan has a rock-solid future— whether that means sending them to an elite prep school, buying an "investment property" they can live in someday, or (ahem) scoring them hot product endorsement deals. Scorpio rules the zodiac's eighth house of wealth, joint ventures, and long-term finance. Fiscal security is extremely important to you, and motherhood makes you work that much harder to lock it in for your children. 'I had my daughter's college fund set up before she was born,' says Meredith, the Scorpio mom of a seven-month-old. 'I'm the one who brought up that we needed to put money aside and make sure that her college is paid for—no matter what.' Life with Scorpio moms may be an exhausting game of chess, but the queen trumps all in the end. Your plotting, controlling, maneuvering, and sidestepping are part of a divine dance between you and the universe, which whispers a little more loudly in your ear than any other sign's. Scorpio is one of the zodiac's most intuitive (and even psychic) members, and you tend to faithfully trust your own inner guidance system. After all, it seldom steers you wrong."

Prednosti: Odlučnost, snaga, fleksibilnost, intuitivnost

Slabosti: Paranoičnost, pretjerana kontrola, opsesivnost, emocionalna nedostupnost, osjećaj krivice

Stil roditeljstva: Škorpija mama je magnet. Istovremeno je control freak i čudakinja, ali i inspirativna i neustrašiva. U zavisnosti od vašeg raspoloženja, vaša djeca mogu dobiti najbolje, ali i najgore od vas. Najgore ne podrazumijeva fizički obračun ni velike kazne, ali dovoljan je pogled mame škorpije, da djeca shvate svoju grešku. Vaša naglašena potreba za zaštitom djece, rezultuje time da nekada pretjerujete u kontroli i svojim nepopustljivim stavovima.

Većina škorpija prihvata ulogu majke, automatski se prilagođavajući. Iako su za ostatak svijeta veoma hladne, prema svojoj djeci su izuzetno tople i nježne. Na kraju im ne bude teško da postanu privržene, već da puste dijete. U međuvremenu, pomno planiraju život svog djeteta. Poput mame u klanu Kardašianovih, vi ste vođa klana i želite da imaju isplaniranu budućnost. Bez obzira na to da li se radi o pripremi njihovog posla ili kuće u kojoj će živjeti. Škorpijom vlada osma kuća zodijaka, zdravlja, finansija i dugoročnog užitka.

Finansijska stabilnost vam je veoma važna pa se stoga dešava da imate planiran budžet za školovanje djeteta i prije nego se rodi. Život sa mamom škorpijom može da bude iscrpljujuća partija šaha, ali na kraju kraljica pobjeđuje. Vi kontrolišete, upravljate i djelujete na sve moguće aspekte pa ste tu najistaknutiji od svih znakova. Škorpija je znak, koji najviše od svih vjeruje svojoj intuiciji i najčešće je u pravu.

Strijelac

Strengths as a mom: Adventure, wisdom, humor, perspective Weaknesses as a mom: Impatience, crudeness, bluntness, too much spontaneity and lack of structure Your parenting style: "As the zodiac's freest spirit, parenting is an interesting adjustment for you. Spontaneous Sagittarians live in the moment, acting on impulse and instinct. You cherish your independence, and this new level of permanence can feel surreal. Who, you—a disciplinarian? An authority figure? Parenting is a big lifestyle change for this sign. While you can be wonderful with children, treating them like real people instead of patronizing them, kids also demand a lot of time and energy. Your pencil-it-in-now-and-see-how-we-feel-later lifestyle just doesn't cut it anymore. Even if you're great at planning, your own life may already run on a packed schedule. Now you have to integrate an- other person's needs and demands into this active routine. Getting the proportions right could take a minute. Ruled by Jupiter, planet of excess and abundance, Sagittarians tend to overcommit (and work until exhaustion) or to avoid commitment altogether. You're famous for shooting first and asking questions later. This daredevil spirit is a double-edged sword when it comes to motherhood. On the upside, your spontaneity makes life fun. You'll toss the kids in the car and drive to the next state to buy fireworks or see a traveling circus. You'll serve pancakes with whipped cream for dinner and leftover Chinese for break- fast (hey, at least they ate, right?). And you can pull together an impromptu vacation or slumber party like no other mom. But when it comes to planning and structure...not so much. So how does the zodiac's party girl morph into the PTA president? Hello, existential identity crisis...or maybe not. The best strategy a Sag mom can take is the "if you can't beat 'em, join 'em" approach—or what the experts call parallel play. Repainting the kitchen for the ninth time? Hand your babe a brush and a little bucket of color, and give him a corner to coat. Planting an English garden? Get a pint-sized watering can, a couple of small pots, and cultivate a young green thumb. Bonus: you'll foster a sense of leadership, build skills, and enjoy a shared sense of accomplishment from completing a project together. Remember, your kids just want to be with their mom, feeling close, and connected. Integrate them into your adventures, and presto—you have an intergenerational win-win. Yes, when 'freedom' is your middle name, dealing with a dependent child and a tight schedule could require new muscles. As our Sagittarius friend Amanda likes to say, 'I'm a person who happens to be a mother—not a mother who happens to be a person.' When all else fails, remember: there's not always much dignity in motherhood, so use your innate sense of humor to see the divine comedy in it all."

Prednosti: Avanturizam, mudrost, humorističnost, perspektivnost

Slabosti: Nestrpljivost, okrutnost, pretjerana spontanost i nedostatak granica

Stil roditeljstva: Kao najslobodniji znak zodijaka, roditeljstvo je zanimljiv izazov za vas. Spontanost strijelca da živi za trenutak može biti dovedena u pitanje, kada treba da bude disciplinovan. Roditeljstvo je velika životna promjena za vas, jer iako volite djecu ne znate kako da se postavite prema njima. Najveći izazov vam predstavlja kako da ukomponujete planove nove osobe sa svojima.

Teško balansirate pa se dešava da imate previše obaveza ili da ih u potpunosti izbjegavate. Prepoznatljivi ste po tome što prvo iznosite stav pa tek onda pitate. To može biti problematično, kada je u pitanju roditeljstvo. Vaša spontanost daje dobru notu roditeljstvu, jer iznenada znate odvesti djecu na putovanje, prirediti iznenađenje i oduševiti ih. Međutim, kada je posrijedi planiranje ne snalazite se najbolje.

Pa kako onda da to izvedete? Najbolje je da ih uključite u svoje aktivnosti u kojima ćete doći do izražaja kao autoritet, a istovremeno se zabaviti. Na primjer, okrečite sobu zajedno, posadite cvijeće u bašti i uskladićete razigrani duh i naučiti se organizovanju i disciplini.

Jarac

Strengths as a mom: Planning, structure, traditional values, consistency, patience, thoughtfulness Weaknesses as a mom: Worry and anxiety, overly cautious, pessimism, self-doubt, seriousness to a fault Your parenting style: "Who's your daddy, er, mommy? Since Capricorn is the zodiac's 'father' sign, this adds an interesting twist to your mothering style. In stereotypical terms, you may be more of the dad than the mom—or both parents rolled into one. Not that you don't have a sentimental or feminine side, but Capricorn's ruling planet is Saturn, the stern taskmaster associated with authority, masculinity, and structure. You're not afraid to set limits or to teach your kids necessary life lessons. You'd like to be close to your children, but you don't need to be best friends. Hierarchy based on age is fine with you. As a traditional sign, you respect your own parents (even if you don't like them) and may be quite conventional. You're more a tough-love type of mom who delivers stern lectures and stiff hugs. You might not be the most touchy-feely person, preferring to show your devotion through your actions rather than affection. How this plays out depends a lot on your own upbringing. Capricorns tend to be "old souls" who play the dutiful soldier in their families, keeping a lot of their emotions inside. Your own childhood may have been colored by hard experiences or hefty responsibility placed on your small shoulders (perhaps self-imposed, as many Cap kids are overachievers). Or maybe your parents worked hard to provide for your needs. Now you feel a deep obligation to repay them by succeeding. There's a 'steel magnolia' in every Capricorn mom. Like Katie Couric and Michelle Obama, you exude feminine beauty layered over deep reserves of strength. You're the rock of your clan, the force that holds everything together through thick and thin. It was Capricorn Donna Summer who sang 'She Works Hard for the Money,' and that's certainly true for you. Capricorn is the zodiac's provider sign, and with your solid work ethic you could be the family breadwinner. Escape from your obligations whenever possible so you don't miss your little one's fleeting moments of cuteness. Pay attention when people tell you that 'it goes by so fast.' They're not kidding."

Prednosti: Planiranje, njegovanje tradicionalnih vrijednosti, strpljenje, dosljednost

Slabosti: Zabrinutost i anksioznost, pretjerana predostrožnost, pesimističnost, sumnjičavost

Stil roditeljstva: Ko je tvoj tata? Ili bolje rečeno mama? S obzirom na to da je strijelac tata zodijaka, to daje zanimljivu notu vašem stilu roditeljstva. Možda ste više tata u kući, ili obe uloge u jednoj. To ne znači da nemate sentimentalnu stranu, ali s obzirom na to da vama upravlja planeta Saturn, koja je povezana sa autoritetom, maskulinitetom i strukturom, vi imate više karakteristika muškog roditelja. Ne bojite se da postavite granice i naučite veoma rano svoju djecu važne životne lekcije. Iako želite biti bliski sa djecom, ne želite imati ulogu najboljeg prijatelja. Kao tradicionalan znak vi poštujete svoje roditelje, čak iako vam se ne sviđa sve što rade i isto očekujete od svoje djece.

Emocije iskazujete kroz geste, a ne isključivo zagrljaje i poljupce. Mnogo toga čuvate u sebi i zato se vašoj djeci nekada može učiniti da ste nepristupačni i hladni, ali vi tako funkcionišete. Vaše djetinjstvo igra važnu ulogu u vaspitanju vaše djece. Nastojite ispravite greške vaših roditelja i pružiti svojoj djeci sve što sami niste imali.

Poput Mišel Obame, vi ste lijepi i mili ispod oklopa čvrstine i snage. U svojoj porodici ste sila, koja drži sve na okupu i koja najčešće zarađuje za njih. Stoga se desi da nekad nemate dovoljno vremena za svoju djecu. Usporite malo i odvojite vrijeme za trenutke nježnosti i razgovora.

Vodolija

Strengths as a mom: Youthfulness, open-mindedness, originality, fairness Weaknesses as a mom: Boundaries, turbulence and drama, detachment, overly permissive tendencies Your parenting style: "What do you get when you mix the girl next door, a rock 'n' roll groupie, a pageant queen, a fembot, and your childhood best friend? Add a couple tattoos, a karate black belt, or at least one unexpected personal skeleton in the closet (a regrettable piercing, a Trekkie membership) and you've got the Aquarius mom—in all her eclectic glory. The Aquarius mother is a curious character who's impossible to put in a box. You're affectionate yet aloof, stern yet spontaneous, the world's mellowest control freak. You're a unicorn-riding Pollyanna who sings about rainbows and sunbeams; yet you can be the snarkiest cynic on the block. You specialize in organized chaos, and your parenting can be subject to change without notice. Life with an Aquarius mom can range from adventurous to bats**t crazy, but it's never boring. You view your existence as a grand journey, and you want your children to experience a magical utopia for as long as possible—one fashioned from your own vivid imagination. Your ruling planet is unconventional Uranus, which is associated with emotional detachment, rebellion, and surprises. 'Expect the unexpected' could be your mothering motto, at least until you get your bearings. Aquarians are known for being uncomfortable with intimacy—you're the sign of casual connections and friendship, so you're more at ease be- longing to the world, not just one little person. So one of the biggest surprises of motherhood is the depth of emotion it can bring up. You might weep sentimentally one minute, then put on your game face the next, becoming as steely as a basketball coach during the last thirty seconds of playoffs. Hot and cold are your default settings—even if you give the appearance of being easygoing and agreeable. It could take a while before you find an even keel as a mother. At the same time, your fourth house of motherhood is governed by traditional Taurus. This cocoons your quirky-cool style in practical, earth sign energy—envision a white picket fence built around a VW bus. In fact, your nomadic sign might just crave security and roots for the first time when the kids come. Of course, being in the moment isn't always easy. The present and the past are not the Aquarius mom's domain, and you can seem downright unsentimental or checked out at times. The remedy? Make sure you maintain a strong individual identity, even after you be- come a mom. While this is necessary for any mother, it's especially vital for outgoing Aquarius to nurture your youthful and social ways. If you loved going to music festivals, sports games, gallery openings, or on long girls' week- ends out of town, then find a way to keep that up. Ditto for your quirky sense of style. Skip the soccer mom look and keep rocking your cool vintage ankle boots, kitty-eared ski hats, and halter maxi-dresses. If you try to be the perfect Happy Homemaker, you'll only want to rebel, and motherhood will feel like a trap. Find the right balance between honoring your individuality and being a source of consistency in your children's lives."

Prednosti: Uvijek živ duh mladosti, otvorenost, originalnost, neustrašivost

Slabosti: Turbulentnost, drama, granice, popustljivost, privrženost

Stil roditeljstva: Šta se dobije kada pomiješate djevojku iz komšiluka, rok djevojku, najbolju prijateljicu iz djetinjstva i drama kraljicu? Dodajte nekoliko tetovaža, crni pojas u karateu ili bar jednog neočekivanog skeleta u ormaru i dobijate mamu vodoliju. U svim izdanjima i slavi.

Mame vodolije je nemoguće staviti u jednu od kutija. Vi ste spontani, ali i control freak, pozitivni, ali u drugom trenutku pesimisti. Vi ste se specijalizovali za kreativni nered i lako mijenjate način roditeljstva. Život sa mamom vodolijom ide od ludog do avanturističkog, ali nikad dosadnog. Želite pokazati kako život može biti zabavan pa svoje dijete vodite na sva putovanja, pokazujući mu kako je i sam život jedno ogromno putovanje puno zabave.

Vaša vladajuća planeta je Uran, koji je nekonvencionalan i povezan za buntovništvom i iznenađenjima. “Očekujte neočekivano”, može biti vaš moto, jer iz dana u dan mijenjate odluke. Iako ste bliski sa mnogima, vama najveće iznenađenje predstavlja emotivna povezanost sa djecom. Odnosno dubina emocija, koje vas iznenada pretvaraju u divnu i brižljivu mamu.

Pronalaženje balansa između individualnosti i brige za druge, vaš je izazov. Ali s vremenom učite kako biti posvećen roditelj, koji u svojim avanturama ima djecu kao saveznike. Učite od njih, a i oni od vas pa ste često okarakterisani kao njihov najbolji prijatelj.

Ribe

Strengths as a mom: Compassion, imagination, nurturing, creativity Weaknesses as a mom: Kookiness, manipulation, instability, guilt Your parenting style: "Hello, mermaid mommy! The Pisces mother is a seductive siren and an earth mother rolled into one glamorous package. You love to ensconce your family in a cozy but luxurious bubble, and chances are you'll have a well-appointed home and wardrobe to match. Even in sweatpants, you manage to look coiffed and ready for your close-up most days. Fortunately, you emanate enough warmth to be enchanting rather than intimidating to other moms. Even if you can be fastidious in your tastes, your door is always open to the world. Watery Pisces is the zodiac's last sign. You're empathic and ethereal, spiritual and sensitive, wise and emotionally intelligent. You know how to treat yourself like a goddess—and you'll encourage the mothers around you to do the same. The Pisces mother has quirks, and plenty of them. Your heart is always in the right place—even if your head isn't. It's exactly this Alice in Wonderland–type of unreality that makes you such a magical mama, turning family time into a floating Mad Hatter tea party. There are no typical days in your household, and your kids might be in awe of what you pull out of that rakish chapeau. Enchanting vacations, road trips, outings—you can come up with these ideas in your sleep. Will they be decadent or disastrous? You'll find out once you do it. Albert Einstein, a Pisces, famously said, "The true sign of intelligence is not knowledge, but imagination." The downside to your freewheeling style, however, can be a lack of boundaries or stability. You can be a little too out there, embarrassing your kids as they get older or making them anxious from the unpredictable changes and lack of structure. Since you hate being told what to do and when to do it, you may struggle to get your kid on a regular bedtime and meal schedule or to give them enough of the consistency that kids crave. Your best bet is to have a partner, grandparent, or caregiver help enforce these routines if you feel oppressed by this facet of parenting. Your kids always know that you have their backs, however, and there's no sacrifice you wouldn't make for their happiness. Your children will definitely grow up with a healthy sense of self-worth as a result of your adoration (in some cases, a little too healthy, but so be it). In your eyes, they can do no wrong, and you're there to soothe them, spoil them, and cheer on their every accomplishment. Some Pisces mothers elevate their kids onto quite a pedestal; you may or may do this yourself, but you cherish every moment that you spend with them. Although you have your own life, you'll maintain closeness with your kids over the years. Mom, best friend, social director, and confidante: you do it all and make it look effortlessly chic."

Prednosti: Saosjećajnost, njegovanje, maštovitost, kreativnost

Slabosti: Manipulativnost, nestabilnost, osjećaj krivice

Stil roditeljstva: Hello mama sireno! Vi ste spoj sirene i žene na zemlji u jednom. Vaša kuća odiše luksuzom i čak je u skladu sa vašim garderoberom. Obožavate modu i trudite sa uskladite svoj izgled sa dječijim. Sa drugim mamama razmjenjujete savjete i ideje. Vrata vašeg doma su otvorena za druge i veoma ste gostoljubivi. Osjećajni i emotivni, spiritualni i mudri.

Mama riba uvijek zna gdje joj je srce, čak i kada ne zna gdje joj je glava. Alisa u zemlji čuda vaša je bajka, jer iznova priređujete nešto neočekivano. Bilo da se radi o putovanjima, sitnicama u kući ili kreativnim idejama, vi stalno radite na nečemu novom. Albert Ajnštajn, koji je i sam riba, rekao je “Pravi znak inteligencije nije znanje, već mašta”.

Međutim, negativna strana toga je da ne znate odrediti pravila i granice. Pošto ih sami rijetko poštujete, vremenom vam postaje sve teže kontrolisati djecu. Stoga je najbolje da imate neku odraslu osobu uz sebe, koja će preuzeti ulogu autoriteta, a vi se zadržati u razigranom stilu.

Bez obzira na sve, vaša djeca će zahvaljujući vama naučiti kako da sebe cijene i vole. Izrašće u samouvjerene osobe i biti spremni za životne izazove. Nema toga što nećete učiniti za njih. Možda ćete ih razmaziti, staviti na pijadestal, ali vama djeca postaju centar svijeta. Vaše potrebe i dalje postoje pa ne zaboravite da uskladite njih sa onima vaše djece.

 

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